Every time you cannot be emotionally attached to your partner. It’s obvious that there will be a time when you two will be in perfect emotional state and time. However don’t expect this to happen all the time. He can’t always be in the cheerful and happy mood, especially when you expect him to be.
Similarly, he is not sitting in your mind that he can easily judge problems that you are facing and hard time you are going through. As your relationship grows you should be more conscious and you should realize that when his mood is good when he is happy when he is free and in hectic routine. Affection, good time, and patience are the key factors that can help you in getting closer to your partner one day, spiritually and emotionally.
Avoid Conflicts and Arguments
It’s obvious that arguments and conflicts take place in any relationship. Some experts say that conflicts help in making your relation healthier and stronger than before. However, we normally consider that conflicts don’t occur in a perfect relationship and we all should avoid conflicts at any cost for a relationship to work. But such approach is very-very wrong and can actually devastate your relation badly.
Conflicts help us in understanding about likes and dislikes of our partner. Moreover, if we resolve our all conflicts sensibly, it will surely make the relationship stronger and lives happier. Try to cool down all the things by setting some discussion sessions. Don’t make conflicts a serious issue.
Together And Forever
It’s very imperative for both to spend some precious time with each other to make their chemistry. Couples should plan occasionally for weekends, romantic dinner, and movie. Always enjoy each other’s company. However expecting your partner to always stay with you is somehow unpractical and is one of the foolish unrealistic expectations that can straight away ruin your mind and relation.
As an individual, both of you must give each other some space to enjoy your hobbies, sometimes with family and proper time at your workplace too.
You must spend some quality time with your old friends, go to the park or read some books of your choice. Sometimes loneliness and small things relax your mind and give you positive energy and even help in making your relationship strong.
Why all think that life is as easy as it seems to be, no-no life is complicated, if you build unrealistic expectations in your mind. Your partner is a simple human being he is not a movie star and he cannot be perfect and relationships are not like something written in a romantic novel.
The reality is whereas quite different and opposite. Nothing is easy; every relationship requires effort, time, patience, affection and dedication to growing strong. If your relationship is going through some hard time it does not mean that love for each other is finished, always try to understand; ups and downs are part of life.
Your relationship needs love, patience, effort and commitment to handle problems and conflicts wisely. You should relinquish unrealistic expectations and false hopes, for a relationship to work well. By getting rid of these expectations, you will surely make your relation everlasting and strong. Furthermore, it will make your life healthier and happier.
- Give compliments
- Listen to each other
- Kiss often
- Admit that you are wrong even if you are right
- Spend precious time with each other
- Travel together (Especially on weekends)
- Forgive and forget
- Surprise each other
- Encourage each other moreover give positive energy to each other
- Avoid criticism and offer solutions
- Respect each other
- Respect each other’s friends too
- Give space and time
- Bring up the past
- Forget passion
- Become possessive
- Get mean
- Forget to enjoy yourself
Open relationship rules and unrealistic expectations may sound weird, but that’s how they are. These are for your happiness and one must follow. What works for one individual may not work for another. However through the experiences of others who were in open relationships, there are lots of things we can learn in order to stay away from pitfalls and get pleasure from those s****l highs. You should remember that these rules are not created to restrict you.
If you have any experience by which others can learn, then feel free to share it in the comment section!